Somebody mentioned amvona I forget who. So I picked up one of those cheap softboxes. Well has anybody managed to put one of these together??? The inscructions are "Slide the 4 aluminum tipped steal support rods through the pockets along the inside corners of your Soft box (designed to hold the rods in place). Position the connector in the center of the Soft box facing down. Insert the ends of the rods into the connector (diagonally opposing sides first). Make sure all four rods are firmly seated in the connector. The Soft box will take the correct dome shape" Okay I got the rods in. But the rest???