Dear Bob,
You are too generous. Merely because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I think you're wrong, if you see what I mean; I was just trying to put a (rather different) viewpoint, and did it clumsily, for which I apologize. Between the assorted advice on the thread, most people should be able to steer the best course for themselves, if they make it clear to the Happy Couple what they're getting.
Cheers,
R. |