your F-I-L seems a bit old for people as young as you & your hubby....! Happy birthday to him just the same! Yes, you need to get to Portland as men when left to their own devices tend to wander around aimlessly which, as one knows, is unproductive! We need a director, a facilitator, a task master!
Long live Ed "Big Daddy" Roth!!
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"I don't care about Milwaukee or Chicago." - Yvon LeBlanc
Wandering aimlessly is what I do best! I do my best stuff when I wander into something and just give it a go. Organization is over-rated.(sometimes...)