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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirius Glass View Post
    Finally someone who gets it. It amazes me that the childless experts come out of the woodwork to give strong advice about things that they do not know about and truly haven't a clue about so many things in the world.
    Guess I had that one coming.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StoneNYC View Post
    Yea, emo would at least potentially explain the nirvana shirt... Though of he were emo he might get really defensive about not being emo when you called him emo... (Emo= emotional)
    Oh I thought you were talking about fans of Emo Philips. That's MY style.

    Welcome norm123, looking forward to more photos and stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Burk View Post
    Oh I thought you were talking about fans of Emo Philips. That's MY style.

    Welcome norm123, looking forward to more photos and stories.
    Heh, ummm... I don't know who that is...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheFlyingCamera View Post
    I don't think it needs to be "straightened out". Leave the kid alone and let him be what he wants to be. If he doesn't like it five years from now (highly likely) he'll change. And like most people who change between 15 and 21, by the time he's 25 he'll probably regret some of the choices he made vis-a-vis body modification, or even just fashion statements that are now commemorated forevermore in dad's photos. But the surest route to destroying a relationship between a parent and child is to try and force "your" way on them (and that goes both directions, not just parents trying to make kids be what they want them to be instead of what the kid wants to be). I'm not saying never say NO to the kid, but don't drop ultimatums on them. Do that when it doesn't count, and when it does, they'll choose the option you don't want them to.
    Ummm. I don't see any posts where anybody said there was anything wrong with the boy. The conversation morphed into complaints about lots of other people and places, but where did anybody complain about him?
    “You seek escape from pain. We seek the achievement of happiness. You exist for the sake of avoiding punishment. We exist for the sake of earning rewards. Threats will not make us function; fear is not our incentive. It is not death that we wish to avoid, but life that we wish to live.” - John Galt

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    I'm still really impressed this was HP5+ I love the film and it's now one of my 2 main films but the OP's printing skills sure are great for sure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pbromaghin View Post
    Ummm. I don't see any posts where anybody said there was anything wrong with the boy. The conversation morphed into complaints about lots of other people and places, but where did anybody complain about him?
    Tom1956 made a comment about sending kids like him to a farm to plow fields and chop wood for a couple years to straighten them out. I don't know the kid at all - his dad certainly didn't have any complaints, and felt proud enough of him to take his portrait and post it online - sounds like the kid doesn't need any straightening out. He just has a different fashion sense.

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    Just to be clear for the record, the kid is probably a good kid. In fact I have a theory that most of these young people who go around in these weird get-ups, would rather in their hearts go around looking like the kids on the Donna Reed Show or something, if only they didn't feel like they would appear strange. These kids today are under such pressure by the diversity mongers, they feel like they have to look odd just to fit in.
    The last thing I'd ever even think of is wanting insult any of you folks' kids or anything else that is yours. So, to state for the record, if there was any insult coming from me, unintended or not, I apologize. Wasn't mean that way.

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    hi scott

    the post before tom mentions reggie cutting trees on his property
    he mentions the same kid just killed his girlfriend ...
    maybe its a different kid ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tom1956 View Post
    Just to be clear for the record, the kid is probably a good kid. In fact I have a theory that most of these young people who go around in these weird get-ups, would rather in their hearts go around looking like the kids on the Donna Reed Show or something, if only they didn't feel like they would appear strange. These kids today are under such pressure by the diversity mongers, they feel like they have to look odd just to fit in.
    The last thing I'd ever even think of is wanting insult any of you folks' kids or anything else that is yours. So, to state for the record, if there was any insult coming from me, unintended or not, I apologize. Wasn't mean that way.
    Perhaps you're the one in the weird getup

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    Whatever. cya.



 

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