Here is how I feel about it: If you do not want comments from the Peanut Gallery, then do not post pictures in the Peanut Gallery.
If you don't want people to react to your photos in their own way – if you want to limit reactions to only certain things – then do not show your work. You cannot control what people think or say, so why even bother getting upset about these things when you show your work? Just call them losers if you must, say they do not "get it," and move on doing what you want to do. If you are going to display visual work for others to look at, then you need a certain amount of "FUGGEM" in you.
Now, I am not saying that I do not agree with you about the disgusting ogling and sexism, but you have to realize that that is how people are, and you do not have any control over that, except by raising your own child not to be that way.
"Truth and love are my law and worship. Form and conscience are my manifestation and guide. Nature and peace are my shelter and companions. Order is my attitude. Beauty and perfection are my attack."