I wear dress shirt, pants, no tie, dark solid colors. I found a tie gets in the way. Tried a bow tie, too complicated to get correct and the clip on falls off! I try to dress like the guests. I feel that if I get over dressed I will stick out. I want the B&G to be the focus with the bridal party, family & guests to follow. I'm a worker bee at a wedding. I want to blend in with the walls!