benjiboy: My avatar is indeed a self-portrait. I wanted this intro to be about my photography and only about my personal life only insofar as it is relevant, so I was attempting to downplay the fact that I'm gay. I assume you have those in the UK as well.

Diapositivo: [nods] We've been together for eighteen years come this summer. For our fifteenth anniversary a couple years ago, on the way to a camping vacation in Wisconsin we made a slight detour west to Iowa and got legally married.

Now about my photography...!