I used to have "detailmania" - wanting every detail there, everything pin sharp, etc...
I used to be like that, but then I saw that I probably would never be satisfied, so i went out of bought some 35mm T-Max P3200, pushed it to 6400 and shot a bunch of things at night. I did this for about a month...purposely shooting things both in and out of focus. In the end I really liked the look of a lot of the prints, and when I went back to shooting medium and slow films on MF the grain seemed to have disappeared...