My girlfriend (no wife but we have been together for 14 years, so practically a wife) photographs herself and I have brought her stuff. But once I brought a LPL/Saunders 4x5 enlarger and did not tell her. I would not say I really hide stuff from her, not in the real sence of hiding, but we men do like to go discussions out iof the way. That is just the way we usually are. That is the thing which women tend not to understand. I hope I am allowed to write this without someone cutting my head off. Anyway my girlfriend has never mentioned a word about the enlarger, and it is stored right next to our bed.
Mmm... it makes me wonder?!?