Quote Originally Posted by Cheryl Jacobs

Just my two cents' worth.
I think Cheryl has summed it all up. I would add (not from any informed point of view that the model(?) will be better off with the photographer, who has nothing to gain, holding the negs rather than a potentially irate husband.

If you decide to shred the negs I would invite the model to the event and intentionally omit the husband --- let him live in doubt.