I think every thinking human being in western culture understands the dichotomy that women are subjected to and also subject themselves and their female peers to.
To me the video is no great revelation about anything, and the picture still stands alone and has not changed in my eyes.
I photograph lots of little girls. I've had 3 year olds slip the shoulder of their shirt off their shoulder and give me a Brittney Spears cheeky look. I've had very young girls flirt with me in very inappropriate ways.
But little girls have always tried on their moms clothes and posed and fantasied about being "older". Human beings are sexual beings and even at a very young age exhibit signs of what their little minds are thinking.