Quote Originally Posted by cmo View Post
As I wrote before, it is not only a matter of users but also of moderators. There are forum rambos in all languages, but a good moderator tames them.

Well, and I know one forum where the opposite is done. Sometimes it's not the guests but the pub owner that fails.
May be. But besides a regrettable bias towards a certain member with commercial interests I see much helplessness in keeping chequered discussions from getting personal. To cool down before this happens I see in the responsibility of all members. I think this discussion does not belong to this place. I will not take this any further.