Kevin, I would not be too bummed - you can get a replacement lamp for the cold light head and hopefully someone here will help you out with the stablizer - Think once you get it all together you will be happier. The VC cold light - the last set of pics, is a nice head so don't let someone talk you out of it..they are not cheap. Do a few searchs for Zone VI VC head, etc - bet you can find something.
Oh! And Good Luck-you have some really nice stuff here.